“. . . where I see an enemy to be defeated, he [Vanier] sees a wound that needs to be healed. That’s a big difference.”
Indeed, it is a big difference!
What if we were to consider ourselves and others as bearers of common wounds that need healing, rather than as adversaries to be defeated or competitors to be outdone?
What if we were to see the hurt beneath others’ anger, rather than as aggressors meriting our retaliation?
What if we were to view every person as a potential means of grace to us, rather than as an object of our correction or charity or evangelization?
What if we were to approach those with whom we disagree as mutual explorers of the ineffable mystery we call GOD, rather than as misguided dupes in need of our superior insight?
What if we were to consider every person as a beloved child of God with infinite worth and dignity, rather than as an object of our desire or a means to our ends?
What if we were to see “the other” through the eyes of Christ, rather than through the lenses of partisan politics, racial prejudices, and national borders?
The lens through which we view others really matters!